Saturday, December 19, 2009

Im a 28 year old man tht dated a 21 year woman i was never in love in my life i need advice?

*is rejection the hardest part to get over a breakup and does that cause u to love the person more than more than u should love them.. im confused because i made mistakes tht led to the brak up but sh became extremely cold afterwards and i changed evrythng tht was messed up .. u see i was in the sells of narcotics never cared about anyone i was raised tht way i found a girl tht made me think diffrntly but it took her leaving me to want to change yet she says its too late it hurts bcuz i have no one.. no family no nothing... its been 4 mnths ive never been in love b4 what do i do in this situation? wen were together she was happy with money and did things with me to make the money we were both at fault but i blame myself bcuz i brought her in2 it .. im hurt becuz ive stopped and its hard not having tht money ... i miss and love this woman like i never have b4 4 anyone any positive adviceIm a 28 year old man tht dated a 21 year woman i was never in love in my life i need advice?
Wow, what a terrible situation..





Whatever you guys were doing to make cash was probably pretty bad?


Is your lifestyle the problem? If so you need to change everything.


You said she left and made you want to change finally... but have you? you need to show her that you can step up to the mark and make the changes needed. She wants to see a strong man who can care for her (properly not dodgy) and stay strong in hard times.


She prob woke up one day and realized this isn't the life she wanted. So what do you do? You build the life she wants.





Worse case, she has truly been hurt to much to try again, in which case, still change your life, because you haven't been in love before but probably will again one day... You need to learn from your mistakes or this will happen again and again...





BEST of luck :)

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