Sunday, December 27, 2009

Need advice on sex life post partum 6 weeks?

First off some background, my husband and I are pro photographers, and I am not the jealous type, I not only tolerate but help him shoot models, many of them nude (extremely nude lol) also he watches porn, and downloads nude pictures, (daily) I am aware of these things and have no problem, except that I just had our first child, I got pregnant 1 month after we married last october, and he was honest with me around my 4th month and told me he didn't get turned on by pregnancy or pregnant women. I got very self conscious, and though we watch porn together during our sex sessions, suddenly I felt inferior and threatened by these younger skinnier women. His shoots with nude women made me crazy, and even though he needed my help, I refused (he can be a terrible flirt and I couldn't bear it) he is very loving and affectionate most of the time, and assures me I have nothing to worry about but I'm tormented.... I was 5'4'; and 120lbs when I got pregnant, the day I delivered I was 172lbs, and now at 6 weeks post partum I am 132lbs, I work out and eat right, but I can't diet I'm breastfeeding our daughter. The problem is that I'm horribly insecure, he masturbates frequently (sometimes for periods up to 6hours in length) I know he has a porn addiction, but I love him regardless, the reason I'm so upset is that he cannot get an erection with me without porn anymore. He still initiates sex sometimes, but its always after he has been jerking off awhile, or in bed he will turn on the porn and jerk it for awhile before even touching me.How do I get him interested in me again?Need advice on sex life post partum 6 weeks?
Well maybe he is not the right person to be with if he is going to be like that with you. But if you love him and all then maybe you should try some sexy lingerie and talk dirty to him. Ask him to turn off the porn and to watch you and only you.Need advice on sex life post partum 6 weeks?
sorry this won't answer your question but...wow.
You seem to be 200lbs. lol
That is really sick to be honest with you. Do you and your husband even understand what a marriage covenant is?? Why would you ever be ok with the fact that your husband gets off to other women other than the one he married?





And what man can say he isn't attracted to his wife's pregnant body? Carrying his child... Im not sure there is much else more beautiful and attractive than that... Oh wait.. a sick filthy porn video!? I think that you and your husband have a lot of issues you need to work out for the sake of your marriage and for the sake of your child.





Good day.

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