Tuesday, December 22, 2009

My goal in life is a dead end...advice?

many people will think this is pathetic but i feel like there is something more for me....i live in ireland and have no actual way of living my dreams....im going nowhere and i have no brilliant contacts and im not rich. i dont know what out there for me. and im worrying about my future. i cant chill and im struggling with body issues. im a walking disaster. and i dont know what to do. any advice would be welcome. please no nasty comments...My goal in life is a dead end...advice?
Take a pro-active stance, and do something about your future! Have you gone to school, and graduated? If not, do that first..get your education. If your body is not what you want it to be, work on it...lose weight, shape up, whatever. You CAN do this, but you have to THINK you can, for it to happen! Good Luck!My goal in life is a dead end...advice?
No matter where you live there is always something you can do. If you have a unique talent (perhaps you can sing well, dance, cook or bake, whatever) then use that talent as your springboard. Step out on faith and get motivated to make the difference in your life. You have to believe in yourself to accomplish anything in life. Quit thinking of yourself as a walking disaster, if you keep telling yourself that you are no good...you never will amount to anything. Success is a by-product of positive thinking. Honestly, everyone struggles in life, you just have to get out there and do the best that you can.
Just remember one simple truth: You are what you think you are. If you believe that nothing can and will stand in the way of your dreams, you will naturally gravitate towards success. Positive thinking really does work. Look up ';affirmations'; on the internet and learn to use them daily. Look that person in the mirror straight in the eye and tell her what you WILL DO to reach your goals. Then step out into the world and DO THOSE THINGS.





If this sounds overly simplistic, I can honestly tell you that I have been faced with many situations where I had a talk with myself, forced myself into action and got exactly what I wanted as a result.





The old adage- ';If you change nothing, nothing ever changes';, is a real understanding of life that you can live by.





Decide to live differently tomorrow and you WILL REACH YOUR GOALS!





Good Luck....now go find that mirror!
Life is really what you make of it. If you think that you are going no where as you have stated then you will find yourself living a self fulfilling prophesy. We must ALWAYS look for the best in our lives no matter what that might be. Go for and achieve your goals, you can do whatever you put your mind to, empower yourself.
what exactly has happened to you? i know the feeling you describe... what triggered it in you? if you want to talk you can add me, msn: almarcelia@hotmail.com


sometimes it helps to just talk to put our thoughts in order and figure out a plan to find meaning in life.... you're not alone.
start to read good book or bible.. you need to get yourself straight..LOL.... life is too short to enjoy it..
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