Advice need about life and college and what to do?

Im a freshmen at Nyack college. im going part time earning 7 credits. i couldn't go full time why i couldn't find a good enough co signer.


top of that i walk 12 blocks every day back and forth from the bus. and i live with my bf. ive been living with for 3 1/2 yrs. all sudden my parents are like you have to come back here to go to college to go full time and so you don't have to walk every day.


they pressure me going to college im finally in a college i like going to but there down sides to it. but if i choose to go live with my parents and attend college there i wont see my bf til summer and winter break..


all i know ppl going to say do whats best for you


that the thing i don't know i don't want to make the wrong choice.


i even have tough of killing my self not because of this.


just in general. but i don't have to guts to.


im 20 years old. yet my parents are telling me what to do.


then there right what if i can't even go full time here at nyack or cant get a car or a job.. what i do then keep walking until my feet fall off.


there is so many choices in life. its just sucks.


plus my bf like do what you have to do..


that doesn't help.Advice need about life and college and what to do?
..Maybe make a compromise with your parents? Finish out the semester/ year at your college there, then try to live with your parents for one semester. Since your BF has given you his support, it may be the best decision just to get on your feet and start saving up some money. I've been where you are, and it's okay to get on your feet again. :)





Please, do not give up. Life never stays the same from where you are, and things DO get better. Maybe it could be a refreshing change for a little while--just to see how it goes.Advice need about life and college and what to do?
Honey listen if you go stay with your parents you can enroll in community college which is WAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY cheaper than Nyack! That way you could attend full time. Community College rate per credit hour is only like $65-90 bucks. Let's just say it's $90 bucks and your taking 12 credits that's only $1080 for four classes, you can't beat that!! Also a pro to the matter is that you can cancel out that loan you have or keep it and buy a computer or something. (I know that's how it works in FL.) Besides your a young lady their are plenty men out there you don't need to strap yourself to one dude. You should be focused on your studies anyway. It's not that they're telling you what to do they're just telling you the right thing to do. I'm not that much older than you (only 3 yrs) you have to do whats best for you. It's your life you only have one so enjoy it. Since your doing something with your life maybe your parents could get you a car. It's a fast growing trend. My mother bought me a car when I first started college and had no idea she was going to do that. To make a long story short just listen to your heart or your parents. In the end they know best. I hope this helps you out in any way. Good luck to you %26amp; your studies!!
Nyack College isn't a bad school at all. If you like it there, and are doing well there, I'd like to find a way for you to stay. Will your parents not cosign the loan unless you move home?





Where do you live? Some of the stores in the Palisades Mall are hiring right now. H%26amp;M was the last time I was in there. You could try there, if you can get there by bus. You should also see if Nyack College has any jobs for students, and also check with all the businesses downtown.





Finally, have you considered the National Guard? Really, truly considered it? It would solve a lot of your problems, if you were to join. You could stay where you are, and go to school full time - the Guard would pay for your schooling, plus give you some pay for the work you do for them. Of course, the trade-offs are that you're part-time military, but if you have no other options, the Guard really may be a fit.