Advice on social life change?

i have friends in school, but i dont really get invited to the cool parties and stuff. the thing is i'm not really interested in them, and they don't like me because i'm not pretty and really fat (5'11 and 220 lbs)





i would much rather hang out with people that go to concerts and like hanging out in the city. the problem is that my town is tiny and not many people share my interests (i know this for fact).





i have two years left of high school. how can i make new friends?





other than losing weight, i'm already on a 100 lbs weight loss journey hahAdvice on social life change?
I hope being a little overweight does not stop you from living. Because that is what you seem to be doing. I'm 5'5 and 250 and believe me I've had my share of ups and downs. Whether you want to or not I really suggest that you go to some of those parties but only one thing you have to do when getting there. Show these people that you are confident and comfortable with who you are. They will accept you for being real. Suddenly you become more beautiful and attractive than the others. I hope you are losing weight because you want to improve your health and no other reason. Thick is in. Did I mention I date handsome, fine and intelligent men. Change your attitude and get out and shop. Change it up and be proud and watch what happens. Don't forget to smile.Advice on social life change?
Don't go out trying to find friends, instead go out and do the things you love to do on your own, chances are you will meet people that have the same interests as you and if you go somewhere regularly you will keep bumping into the same people and eventually befriend them, try joining a group or attending a class or do some volunteer work somewhere, your bound to meet people, just be yourself and be honest. Good luck with the wight loss to.
Hi,


You say not many people share your interests - well, you don't need many people, you just need to find one. Hang out at the local places where kids congregate - church maybe? Just focus on finding one friend that enjoys the same things you do; also, don't limit yourself to gender or age (they can be a year or two younger or older than you). You will find someone to be your friend - just start being a friend first. Best Wishes!
Don't try to fit in. Be who you are whether people like the real you or not. Chances are, you will be a lot happier if you act like yourself rather than someone else. Accept you are and learn to love who you are! It will be tough, but chances are, you will make a lot more friends when you are yourself.
don't worry high school parties suck anyway. Your not missing much.