Don't marry her son....she is no good! 11yrs later...Mom was rightWhat is the best advice you have ever received from your Mother that has stuck with you throughout your life?
Treat others the way that you want to be treated..Oh and don't eat yellow snow..LOL..What is the best advice you have ever received from your Mother that has stuck with you throughout your life?
Always buy clothes that you can mix and match. Always write thank you notes, and ';Don't live in Iowa all your life, move wherever life takes you.';
Don't carry all your eggs in the same basket.
Never say anything that you don't want to hear back at you.
Never rock somebody elses chair without them in it.
If you insist on burning your bridges, make show you have a boat to come back on, in case you must pass that way again.
';Tell them who they are!';
Be able to look at them in the eye.
the best advise
mm i guess that was when she said
it is better not to follow her steps
I remember once she told me that you're only respected for what you are.
';Weed is NOT bad for you. If weed were'nt around, I would'nt be neither.';
Yeah, my mom's a hippie-pot head...
My mother always told me as long as I can read I can do anything and she was right. And she also told me to learn to do things on our own cause she will not always be there . And I Love her for it!!
If you have nothing nice to say, then say that.
same with me, Ands
don't get into Credit Card debt...
of course, I learned my lesson AFTER the fact....
Never give up!
Never love a man more than he loves you. Of course, I hardly ever listened to her but she is always right.
My mother never gave advice, but she did some pretty messed up stuff that I learned very important life lessons from.
Wish I had an answer for that ;-)
Never put anything in your mouth that you cant swallow.
I should have listened
The key to keeping your man happy
';Keep his belly full, and his pecker empty';
Friday, January 8, 2010
Advice on my sex life?
So me and my friend have sex but the problem is i feel like i don't satisfy her enough. Should i ask her or would that be awkward?Advice on my sex life?
Of course that is an awkward question...at least at first, but the fact that you care about their feelings is a selfless act and she should be grateful that you care enough. Not to worry after the initial question has been asked it will all go well after and you two can start working on the good stuff. The best thing about sex is seeing what works and what doesn't because in the end...its ALL good!!!
oh, and practice safe sex!Advice on my sex life?
While you are in the heat of passion, ask her if she would like you to do something for her that you 2 have not done yet. Then practice that until you get it right then move onto something new and repeat the process.
Most women prefer that you take your time slowly building them up before hand. You can learn more about the art of foreplay here http://www.christiesfuntoys.com/prod_inf鈥?/a> you could also try tantric sex, it's a cross between new positions, yoga, and meditation http://www.christiesfuntoys.com/prod_inf鈥?/a> the other thing you can do is give excellent oral before hand here is a good guide to start you out http://www.christiesfuntoys.com/prod_inf鈥?/a> and here is a guide to extending your own orgasm and how to touch her to provoke a quicker response from her http://www.christiesfuntoys.com/prod_inf鈥?/a> My husband and I have enjoyed all of these books over the past 11 years. Sometimes we look at them together and sometimes we try to learn something new to surprise one another. Sex does not have to be mediocre and you can make her experience things she never dreamed possible. Trust me my sexlife is better now than it was when my husband and I were dating in high school back in 1996.
Of course that is an awkward question...at least at first, but the fact that you care about their feelings is a selfless act and she should be grateful that you care enough. Not to worry after the initial question has been asked it will all go well after and you two can start working on the good stuff. The best thing about sex is seeing what works and what doesn't because in the end...its ALL good!!!
oh, and practice safe sex!Advice on my sex life?
While you are in the heat of passion, ask her if she would like you to do something for her that you 2 have not done yet. Then practice that until you get it right then move onto something new and repeat the process.
Most women prefer that you take your time slowly building them up before hand. You can learn more about the art of foreplay here http://www.christiesfuntoys.com/prod_inf鈥?/a> you could also try tantric sex, it's a cross between new positions, yoga, and meditation http://www.christiesfuntoys.com/prod_inf鈥?/a> the other thing you can do is give excellent oral before hand here is a good guide to start you out http://www.christiesfuntoys.com/prod_inf鈥?/a> and here is a guide to extending your own orgasm and how to touch her to provoke a quicker response from her http://www.christiesfuntoys.com/prod_inf鈥?/a> My husband and I have enjoyed all of these books over the past 11 years. Sometimes we look at them together and sometimes we try to learn something new to surprise one another. Sex does not have to be mediocre and you can make her experience things she never dreamed possible. Trust me my sexlife is better now than it was when my husband and I were dating in high school back in 1996.
Have you ever wondered if the person giving you advice on here, could in real life be a troubled person?
I mean I give relationship advice yet find it next to impossible to find myself a date and i'm told frequently that i'm ';pretty';. I'm also a struggling drug addict.Have you ever wondered if the person giving you advice on here, could in real life be a troubled person?
Man I knew I shouldn't have taken that bath in green paint to cure my allergies......it's just that the person had a top contributor badge and all...
I mean, people like you and me are experts because the orange badge says so. We know everything about relationships...maybe we should write a book on it.Have you ever wondered if the person giving you advice on here, could in real life be a troubled person?
I know what you mean ... I sneak in a little P%26amp;S time by using the Warden's Laptop when he leaves his office to Patrol the Prison.
If P%26amp;S is still around in 5-7 more years ..... I can participate more.
Thanks for being brave and telling it like it is.
Hopefully we are honest and have learned from our experiences. I suffered from suicidal depression and alcoholism. Thank heaven I am on a level footing now. Hopefully I have helped some people.
Rose P.
I quite often think tht too...
I like reading other ppl's dilema's to get my mind off my own dilema's n possibly get enough tips/hints on similiar problems i am having
No of course not, take my advice and don't worry about it. (I am a very troubled stoner.)
well honey..i pretty much count on it!!!
WOW...you admitted it. Sure, we can't tell who is answering our serious questions...scary.
we all have our demons.i just come here to forget them for just a little while.
Man I knew I shouldn't have taken that bath in green paint to cure my allergies......it's just that the person had a top contributor badge and all...
I mean, people like you and me are experts because the orange badge says so. We know everything about relationships...maybe we should write a book on it.Have you ever wondered if the person giving you advice on here, could in real life be a troubled person?
I know what you mean ... I sneak in a little P%26amp;S time by using the Warden's Laptop when he leaves his office to Patrol the Prison.
If P%26amp;S is still around in 5-7 more years ..... I can participate more.
Thanks for being brave and telling it like it is.
Hopefully we are honest and have learned from our experiences. I suffered from suicidal depression and alcoholism. Thank heaven I am on a level footing now. Hopefully I have helped some people.
Rose P.
I quite often think tht too...
I like reading other ppl's dilema's to get my mind off my own dilema's n possibly get enough tips/hints on similiar problems i am having
No of course not, take my advice and don't worry about it. (I am a very troubled stoner.)
well honey..i pretty much count on it!!!
WOW...you admitted it. Sure, we can't tell who is answering our serious questions...scary.
we all have our demons.i just come here to forget them for just a little while.
Senior Citizens! what advice would you give to a younger person about how to make the most out of life?
Anyone got any tips or anything from your experience, thanks :-DSenior Citizens! what advice would you give to a younger person about how to make the most out of life?
Life is just like a dollar! A hundred cents.
If you're lucky you have a hundred years.
When you get the dollar
you are anxious to spend it.
You spend a dime, or 21 cents
and you say, ' I still have plenty left.'
Then you've spent 32 or 41 cents
and you say, 'Gosh it is almost half gone!
Where did it go. This could get scary!'
But you know you still have lots left.
Then you've spent 50 cents,
you've spent 59 cents - 'Oh my goodness
can this be happening to me?'
60 cents - 65 cents
Now each penny seems more
and more important.
You keep trying to remember
each and every penny you spent
in the past what was it you spent it on?
Where did it go?
You have a hard time
remembering, but you know it is
gone and there is no way to get it back.
There is a longing to have the
whole dollar back and to start all over again.
This time you would be more sensible
about what you spent the pennies on,
cause NOW you realize they add up
and they add up quickly!
You have now spent 75 cents or 78 cents.
There is a feeling of panic. You don't want
to be broke.
You vainly try to think of something
worthwhile to spend the last few cents
on and you even start to wonder if you will
really have a whole dollar to spend.
You worry that maybe you really only have
79 cents or 82 cents, and then you will be broke.
There is no way to stop it and no way to
get it back.
Spend it wisely, because every single human
on this earth has the same chance to spend
their dollar and then it is GONE!
A lot of people live a hundred years today-
that is what I based the dollar on,
but a lot die in their 60s 70s 80s and 90s too,
so spend your first 50 or 60 years to
really make them COUNT!!!
Because life is like a hole in your pocket!
One minute you have it and the
next minute it is gone!
You dearly want it back, but it is gone forever!
What year are you in life?
How many cents do you have left to spend?Senior Citizens! what advice would you give to a younger person about how to make the most out of life?
Use common sense, but follow the course of life that interests you and feels right. Don't do this or that or just because people say you should or get into an occupation just on account of the money you think you will make because you will not make a go of any of these things if you personally do not find them interesting and rewarding.
OTOH don't be surprised if you find that the things which interest you change as you get older.
I belive that within each of us we have a gift and with my boys I always encourage being confident ! Find what it is you are good at and focus on it . Belive in yourself and never give up and DO REMEMBER it IS o.k to just be '; o.k '; at some things . Try to be a benefit to society , to help others not only helps the other but can give great self satisfaction . Worry as little as you can make yourself ... every year I notice that some things that I worried about have all worked out ...it really always does , so to worry usually is a waste of time. Trat people with respect and expect the same in return . Most of all ... enjoy life , it really is a great gift!
Get a good education, set goals, believe in yourself, %26amp; never give up.
Oh yes, Most important is to get a good education. Don't' spend more than you have. Stay away from trouble makers.If you have a friend that likes to play around all the time never ride in a car when he is driving .Treat people the way that you would want them to treat you and Please,DON'T BE IN A HURRY TO GROW UP, BELEIVE ME IT WILL HAPPEN FAST ENOUGH! Suggest that you make a copy of these a paste on mirrow as a reminder.
1. Whatever task you are given in life, do it with a smile.
2. Always keep an ';in'; with the ';outs';. Those who you think of as ';lesser people'; are really the ones who keep you afloat, especially the ones who get dirt under their nails from manual labor.
3. Never get caught between the dog and the lamp post!
Do not be anyone but yourself. Find what you love to do and do it. Be nice to people. Do not go into debt. Don't rely on anyone else to make you happy. Stop and smell the roses, and always pick good friends.
Life is short. Get as much education as you can, learn as much as you can, and get as much experience as you can to have a satisfying life.
When I was in high school, the father of a friend of mine said that the reason kids in our town were never in trouble was that they were brought up with the Ten Commandments and the Golden Rule, and if a person lives by those, they would never go astray. That's probably still good advice today, but I would toss in the Boy Scout or Girls Scout laws, just to make sure everthing was covered.
Have a heart to serve, Love, laugh a lot, eat to live and excessive. Prayer and laughter are good for you..
Learn to love yourself. Have pride in yourself. Give everything that you do your very best effort, even though you may fail sometimes. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again. All else, happiness, contentment, and the satisfaction that you gave it your all, will follow.
I'm 60 and I asked my 94 yr old neighbor the same question. This was her answer: ';I eat right and i live right. i keep my hands busy and concentrate on what I'm doing';
I've been trying to live up to her example for three years and i think I'm doing better.
My advice is to live in the moment and enjoy it because it may have been your finest.
God bless you as you go.
Juju
yeah this is a great question...thanks for asking it johno
Enjoy the moment. Like Buddy says, life passes by faster than you think. Listen to your inner self and if something doesn't feel right , then don't do it. Try to volunteer somewhere and the rewards for you will far outweigh anything you do for money. It will help you grow as a responsible human being. Lots of luck to you in your life. By just asking us for advice, shows you are well on your way to success.
You can do whatever you want as long as it doesn't hurt others or yourself and be happy and positive in doing it. Keep learning and give respect and compassion to others and yourself. And save money no matter what! Help in making this world a better place for everyone to live. And YOU can do that.
Great question, and very inspiring answers. Growing up, my mother always said, ';You can be whatever you want to be. There are no limits to accomplishing what you want in life.';
I didn't understand this when I was very young, but I grew to believe it. There were many times when I wasn't sure about an important direction to take in life, and her wisdom helped me immensely.
Never make hasty decisions. Think things over and weigh
the pros and cons. Whether it's before making a purchase
for something new and improved. Or engaging in a new
relationship, or getting married. Too often we live to regret
hasty decisions that could have been avoided entirely, had
we only given it more thought. Sometimes, when it comes to
a relationship, we can regret for the rest of our lives, making
a hasty decision regarding it. And wish we could turn back
the clock to make things right again. Or assuming we could.
Make the most of your skills. So many people are given
a wonderful gift that is never used and fritter away their lives
with mundane jobs that they are often miserable with. And
yet, they didn't have the fortitude to follow a path to develop
their God given talent. It's so easy to just do a job and remain
there til retirement. Then we are prone to say, ';if I had only
done that';. Or if only I'd had a push in the right direction. Time
waits for no man, and that is a given fact. So be true to
yourself, develop your talents and use them to fulfill your life.
That is the only true way to find happiness.
flee from PORN!!!
Now that I am older, I wish I had paid more attention to eating right and exercising, but one is never too old to begin taking care of the body they were given. I guess the best advice I would give a younger person is ';Enjoy all that Life has to offer but remember, All things in Moderation';.
You can give all the advice they are to give and they probably will let go in one ear and out the other.
But someday they will remember it.
{Do the best you can,don't stop trying and thats all one can do}
Remember that what you might regret tomorrow is caused by your actions today. Think about what you say before you say it and try to maintain a positive attitude to life and people, including yourself.
live each day to the fullest...laugh often and make memories
I agree with every other responder. I will add some things that we all know, but have at times disregarded to our regret.
If an opportunity is offered to you that after careful analysis seems ';too good to be true';, it is just that. Over the course of a lifetime, we all receive a multitude of those too good to be true opportunities.
If someone makes a promise to you, they won't mind putting it into writing, if they really intend to keep that promise. IN ALL BUSINESS RELATIONSHIPS, get it in writing.
We would all be money ahead, if we applied these 2 principals to our real lives.
Finally, a law of life that I understand but at my age still can not apply: The more you give of yourself, the more you will receive in return. You will understand this more as you get older, when it is too late to apply this idea retrospectively.
Happy Trails my friend.
This is a good question :)
Life is just like a dollar! A hundred cents.
If you're lucky you have a hundred years.
When you get the dollar
you are anxious to spend it.
You spend a dime, or 21 cents
and you say, ' I still have plenty left.'
Then you've spent 32 or 41 cents
and you say, 'Gosh it is almost half gone!
Where did it go. This could get scary!'
But you know you still have lots left.
Then you've spent 50 cents,
you've spent 59 cents - 'Oh my goodness
can this be happening to me?'
60 cents - 65 cents
Now each penny seems more
and more important.
You keep trying to remember
each and every penny you spent
in the past what was it you spent it on?
Where did it go?
You have a hard time
remembering, but you know it is
gone and there is no way to get it back.
There is a longing to have the
whole dollar back and to start all over again.
This time you would be more sensible
about what you spent the pennies on,
cause NOW you realize they add up
and they add up quickly!
You have now spent 75 cents or 78 cents.
There is a feeling of panic. You don't want
to be broke.
You vainly try to think of something
worthwhile to spend the last few cents
on and you even start to wonder if you will
really have a whole dollar to spend.
You worry that maybe you really only have
79 cents or 82 cents, and then you will be broke.
There is no way to stop it and no way to
get it back.
Spend it wisely, because every single human
on this earth has the same chance to spend
their dollar and then it is GONE!
A lot of people live a hundred years today-
that is what I based the dollar on,
but a lot die in their 60s 70s 80s and 90s too,
so spend your first 50 or 60 years to
really make them COUNT!!!
Because life is like a hole in your pocket!
One minute you have it and the
next minute it is gone!
You dearly want it back, but it is gone forever!
What year are you in life?
How many cents do you have left to spend?Senior Citizens! what advice would you give to a younger person about how to make the most out of life?
Use common sense, but follow the course of life that interests you and feels right. Don't do this or that or just because people say you should or get into an occupation just on account of the money you think you will make because you will not make a go of any of these things if you personally do not find them interesting and rewarding.
OTOH don't be surprised if you find that the things which interest you change as you get older.
I belive that within each of us we have a gift and with my boys I always encourage being confident ! Find what it is you are good at and focus on it . Belive in yourself and never give up and DO REMEMBER it IS o.k to just be '; o.k '; at some things . Try to be a benefit to society , to help others not only helps the other but can give great self satisfaction . Worry as little as you can make yourself ... every year I notice that some things that I worried about have all worked out ...it really always does , so to worry usually is a waste of time. Trat people with respect and expect the same in return . Most of all ... enjoy life , it really is a great gift!
Get a good education, set goals, believe in yourself, %26amp; never give up.
Oh yes, Most important is to get a good education. Don't' spend more than you have. Stay away from trouble makers.If you have a friend that likes to play around all the time never ride in a car when he is driving .Treat people the way that you would want them to treat you and Please,DON'T BE IN A HURRY TO GROW UP, BELEIVE ME IT WILL HAPPEN FAST ENOUGH! Suggest that you make a copy of these a paste on mirrow as a reminder.
1. Whatever task you are given in life, do it with a smile.
2. Always keep an ';in'; with the ';outs';. Those who you think of as ';lesser people'; are really the ones who keep you afloat, especially the ones who get dirt under their nails from manual labor.
3. Never get caught between the dog and the lamp post!
Do not be anyone but yourself. Find what you love to do and do it. Be nice to people. Do not go into debt. Don't rely on anyone else to make you happy. Stop and smell the roses, and always pick good friends.
Life is short. Get as much education as you can, learn as much as you can, and get as much experience as you can to have a satisfying life.
When I was in high school, the father of a friend of mine said that the reason kids in our town were never in trouble was that they were brought up with the Ten Commandments and the Golden Rule, and if a person lives by those, they would never go astray. That's probably still good advice today, but I would toss in the Boy Scout or Girls Scout laws, just to make sure everthing was covered.
Have a heart to serve, Love, laugh a lot, eat to live and excessive. Prayer and laughter are good for you..
Learn to love yourself. Have pride in yourself. Give everything that you do your very best effort, even though you may fail sometimes. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again. All else, happiness, contentment, and the satisfaction that you gave it your all, will follow.
I'm 60 and I asked my 94 yr old neighbor the same question. This was her answer: ';I eat right and i live right. i keep my hands busy and concentrate on what I'm doing';
I've been trying to live up to her example for three years and i think I'm doing better.
My advice is to live in the moment and enjoy it because it may have been your finest.
God bless you as you go.
Juju
yeah this is a great question...thanks for asking it johno
Enjoy the moment. Like Buddy says, life passes by faster than you think. Listen to your inner self and if something doesn't feel right , then don't do it. Try to volunteer somewhere and the rewards for you will far outweigh anything you do for money. It will help you grow as a responsible human being. Lots of luck to you in your life. By just asking us for advice, shows you are well on your way to success.
You can do whatever you want as long as it doesn't hurt others or yourself and be happy and positive in doing it. Keep learning and give respect and compassion to others and yourself. And save money no matter what! Help in making this world a better place for everyone to live. And YOU can do that.
Great question, and very inspiring answers. Growing up, my mother always said, ';You can be whatever you want to be. There are no limits to accomplishing what you want in life.';
I didn't understand this when I was very young, but I grew to believe it. There were many times when I wasn't sure about an important direction to take in life, and her wisdom helped me immensely.
Never make hasty decisions. Think things over and weigh
the pros and cons. Whether it's before making a purchase
for something new and improved. Or engaging in a new
relationship, or getting married. Too often we live to regret
hasty decisions that could have been avoided entirely, had
we only given it more thought. Sometimes, when it comes to
a relationship, we can regret for the rest of our lives, making
a hasty decision regarding it. And wish we could turn back
the clock to make things right again. Or assuming we could.
Make the most of your skills. So many people are given
a wonderful gift that is never used and fritter away their lives
with mundane jobs that they are often miserable with. And
yet, they didn't have the fortitude to follow a path to develop
their God given talent. It's so easy to just do a job and remain
there til retirement. Then we are prone to say, ';if I had only
done that';. Or if only I'd had a push in the right direction. Time
waits for no man, and that is a given fact. So be true to
yourself, develop your talents and use them to fulfill your life.
That is the only true way to find happiness.
flee from PORN!!!
Now that I am older, I wish I had paid more attention to eating right and exercising, but one is never too old to begin taking care of the body they were given. I guess the best advice I would give a younger person is ';Enjoy all that Life has to offer but remember, All things in Moderation';.
You can give all the advice they are to give and they probably will let go in one ear and out the other.
But someday they will remember it.
{Do the best you can,don't stop trying and thats all one can do}
Remember that what you might regret tomorrow is caused by your actions today. Think about what you say before you say it and try to maintain a positive attitude to life and people, including yourself.
live each day to the fullest...laugh often and make memories
I agree with every other responder. I will add some things that we all know, but have at times disregarded to our regret.
If an opportunity is offered to you that after careful analysis seems ';too good to be true';, it is just that. Over the course of a lifetime, we all receive a multitude of those too good to be true opportunities.
If someone makes a promise to you, they won't mind putting it into writing, if they really intend to keep that promise. IN ALL BUSINESS RELATIONSHIPS, get it in writing.
We would all be money ahead, if we applied these 2 principals to our real lives.
Finally, a law of life that I understand but at my age still can not apply: The more you give of yourself, the more you will receive in return. You will understand this more as you get older, when it is too late to apply this idea retrospectively.
Happy Trails my friend.
This is a good question :)
If you could offer me a piece of advice, in one sentence, to live my life by, what would it be?
Treat everyone as you would like to be treated yourself.If you could offer me a piece of advice, in one sentence, to live my life by, what would it be?
treat people as you want to be treatedIf you could offer me a piece of advice, in one sentence, to live my life by, what would it be?
Live, love, laugh and be happy and oh, don't eat yellow snow!!
never neglect your opportunities!!
Kindly try to stem greed by remembering that everyone cannot financially afford to have his teeth fixed.
Don't let the door knob hit you in the *** on the way out lol
Always do the right thing. . .
All the rest will come. . .
Treat others as you would like to be treated.
Do what makes you happy, whatever that may be.
LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH A BACK BONE NOT A WISHBONE.
life is what you make it, so make it worth while
Be a friend of your son.
You must look at this as a positive, Don't expect and you won't get hurt... I heard that at a very crucial time in my life and honestly since that day I live by that but in a positive...it works...hope it works for you...
Be careful what you wish for, it just might come true.
Be nice to people.
Always fallow ur dreams! Remember though becomes things!
make your words sweet and soft,in case you have to eat them
let it be
Always be true to yourself; don't let anyone make you betray your inner self.
Be true to yourself.
Its nice to be important,but more important to be nice.
you only have one life, so live it up
Do or do not. There is no try.
---- YODA
live long and prosper.
Love as if you have never been hurt
And this above all unto thine own self be true and it shall follow as the day the night - thou can'st not then be false to any man.
- William Shakespeare
g-day!
live every day like it is your last
work , enjoy %26amp; build ur future like ur gonna live forever and pray regularly like ur gonna die tomorrow.
Live ur life n neva wait for the right time to come!!
Weaseling out of things is important to learn. It's what separates us from the animals ... except the weasel
Learn from your mistakes.
Never pee on an electric fence.
treat people as you want to be treatedIf you could offer me a piece of advice, in one sentence, to live my life by, what would it be?
Live, love, laugh and be happy and oh, don't eat yellow snow!!
never neglect your opportunities!!
Kindly try to stem greed by remembering that everyone cannot financially afford to have his teeth fixed.
Don't let the door knob hit you in the *** on the way out lol
Always do the right thing. . .
All the rest will come. . .
Treat others as you would like to be treated.
Do what makes you happy, whatever that may be.
LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH A BACK BONE NOT A WISHBONE.
life is what you make it, so make it worth while
Be a friend of your son.
You must look at this as a positive, Don't expect and you won't get hurt... I heard that at a very crucial time in my life and honestly since that day I live by that but in a positive...it works...hope it works for you...
Be careful what you wish for, it just might come true.
Be nice to people.
Always fallow ur dreams! Remember though becomes things!
make your words sweet and soft,in case you have to eat them
let it be
Always be true to yourself; don't let anyone make you betray your inner self.
Be true to yourself.
Its nice to be important,but more important to be nice.
you only have one life, so live it up
Do or do not. There is no try.
---- YODA
live long and prosper.
Love as if you have never been hurt
And this above all unto thine own self be true and it shall follow as the day the night - thou can'st not then be false to any man.
- William Shakespeare
g-day!
live every day like it is your last
work , enjoy %26amp; build ur future like ur gonna live forever and pray regularly like ur gonna die tomorrow.
Live ur life n neva wait for the right time to come!!
Weaseling out of things is important to learn. It's what separates us from the animals ... except the weasel
Learn from your mistakes.
Never pee on an electric fence.
I hate my life, i need some advice!?
i hate my life, my crush hates me and he is ignoring me right now, my best friend left me for some other cooler girls and went to the mall and didnt invite me, my parents give me no privacy, they dont let me close my rooms door, i cant ever go shopping and i feel like **** right now, i need some advice on what to do, i might cry myself to sleep tonight, please i feel horrible!I hate my life, i need some advice!?
believe it or not things will get better, once you get older you will be able to do the things you want. it's better if you don't get your way when your younger so that you can make good decisions later on in life and have a head on your shoulders. in terms of friends, maybe they picked up on your downer vibe and thought that you needed to be alone...or that they didn't wanna hang with you right now. i say get a magazine, listen to some music, dance around, and go ask your friends to go to the mall the next day.I hate my life, i need some advice!?
dont let those stupid girl so called ';friends'; bring you down there just not worth it i know how you feel ive been trough that and im going tthrough that now but karma will make them pay everything!
ok. first of all, try listening to some happy music, reading a book, watching a favorite movie, singing, you know, stuff that can help you to 'zone out' for a bit.
Think back and try to figure out why your crush would hate you. If you think you did something wrong, think about what it would be, and maybe try to make it right?
And maybe ur friend thought that if she can't go shopping with you (now, it depends on if your parents say 'no, u cant shop' or if you just never get the chance to) then she could take the time to go shopping with someone who can because idk shopping just seems to be more fun when ur with a group. Also, she might not have been thinking when they asked her and she didn't think to invite you (which would be lame because you are best friends....)
anyway, maybe you could ask your parents why you can't shut your door because everybody needs they're privacy. I heard that crying once a day is actually good for you so cry if you need to.
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Don't worry, ive had plenty of times in my life where i pretty much hated it, but it ALWAYS got better, and sometimes the getting better took a while and sometimes it didn't so dont even worry, everything is going to turn out ok in the end. (omg i sound like a fortune cookie lol)
ok if your bff knows your parents dont ever let you go shopping its possible she went without asking cuz she new you would have to say no, then get in a fight with your parents cuz they said no. sounds like your parents dont trust you, have you given them reason? if so just remember, in order to be treated with respect you have to give it, repeditively, in order to get it back. yeah, you'll be nice and they will think you want something but if you make a habit of being nice and not wanting anything eventually when you do ask to go out, they will let you on a probationary trial...you can go BUT i want you home by such and such...and then be home by that time or even earlier so that next time you can go again. it works, i know i was the bad kid that had to start over, and now i am the mom.
All i have to say is that I have been in that same situation where i feel like crap at times but once u get older u would start to realize that why the things happen the way they are. So just hang in there , pray about it , and just take it one step at a time
David said his bed was wet with tears (Psalms). Read Lamentations, Ecclesiastes....life is depressing. But life is also joyful too, at times. Happiness and fun is fleeting (temporal), but true contentment comes in time.
Whenever I feel totally bummed out about my life, I realize that there are people being martyred for their faith in China and Africa, and starving children in the world, and then I feel sheepish for even worrying about my petty little problems, which loomed so large at first glance. God knows every hair on your head, little one, and He sees all. Cry out to Him in your pain.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
(Jesus, the Beatitudes in the book of Matthew).
I will pray you have peaceful sleep tonight, and that it all works out for the good.
Shalom.
dude... that's life. most of us go through it. friends do change, so find other ones. you said crush, so how old are you? and big deal if your ';crush'; is ignoring you. if you're calling him a crush, then trust me, there will be MANY MANY others. your parents wont give you privacy, you sound about 14-15 years old. you will have to push and push them. my mom never gave me privacy, always caught me sneaking out at night, then one day she realized that since i was coming home alive and content, then i was ready to live my own life. that's just how parents are. everybody's has different levels of leniency, but most are generally the same.
trust me, i went through the same things. ';friends'; had back stabbed me in grade 10, i even switched schools because of that. made new friends, got over it.
i cried to sleep all the time because crushes never gave back the same feelings i had for them. most brushed me off.
i wasnt even allowed to go shopping, no money, no allowance. had to be with my mom if i wanted something.
mom always opening my door without knocking, even if i was changing (which has happened many times).
sound familiar? trust me, that's just life. you'll come to realize it's actually not that hard to get through if you understand that you arent alone. once you've established who YOU are, and i mean who you REALLY are and your parents realize it, you'll have more freedom.
im 20 now, still at home (it's an asian thing i guess). i can leave at 12am with the car keys with no explanation as to where im going. only have to give a time when im coming back if someone needs the car in the morning.
i installed a new door knob that has a lock. it is always locked when im in here now. 100% of interruptions are knocks, no attempts to open the door.
i have a job, my own money, new friends to go shopping with.
';somewhat'; more mature men interested in me that im interested in.
this all comes with growing up and getting older. so dont worry about it. cry yourself to sleep if it'll make you feel better, or just watch a movie until you pass out. but i am telling you it will get better, just give yourself a few years to grow out of the age you're in now. i dont know you, but i can promise what i said.
i know how you feel my life is very similar but my probs are with friends and b/fs but i feel like that to but just think to yourself that if you do that you'll regret it later...but just think that it'll be over soon enough but most of my life I've spent alone with no friends no love nothing but a home and family that has 2 lil' siblings hurting you every second of your life but just think at what I've said and maybe it'll help...
Everyone has at least a bad day or year. But tell your friend your true feelings and tell her what crap you've been through without her. With your crush, find out why he hates you. Try something a little different to show him a sign like ';please don't be mad at me'; or something. Talk to your parents, ask them why they won't let you have privacy, why you can't go to the mall. Start calm though, if you get mad, pour out your feelings, or even yell, tell how unhappy you are. Because parents want their kids to be happy. Show you're unhappy, then they'll believe you. I went through this time a while ago and things are turning out better. Keep your hopes up, but not too much. You'll survive, believe me!
i feel like **** too.
the love of my life is in love with this other girl..
one of my good guy friends just tried to touch me and it makes me really uncomfortable and then got mad at me for not letting him...
i was just at my best friends house and she didn't invite me to spend the night, which she always does and she and i like couldn't carry on a conversation and then i went home and
i feel so sad too...baby sunscreen
believe it or not things will get better, once you get older you will be able to do the things you want. it's better if you don't get your way when your younger so that you can make good decisions later on in life and have a head on your shoulders. in terms of friends, maybe they picked up on your downer vibe and thought that you needed to be alone...or that they didn't wanna hang with you right now. i say get a magazine, listen to some music, dance around, and go ask your friends to go to the mall the next day.I hate my life, i need some advice!?
dont let those stupid girl so called ';friends'; bring you down there just not worth it i know how you feel ive been trough that and im going tthrough that now but karma will make them pay everything!
ok. first of all, try listening to some happy music, reading a book, watching a favorite movie, singing, you know, stuff that can help you to 'zone out' for a bit.
Think back and try to figure out why your crush would hate you. If you think you did something wrong, think about what it would be, and maybe try to make it right?
And maybe ur friend thought that if she can't go shopping with you (now, it depends on if your parents say 'no, u cant shop' or if you just never get the chance to) then she could take the time to go shopping with someone who can because idk shopping just seems to be more fun when ur with a group. Also, she might not have been thinking when they asked her and she didn't think to invite you (which would be lame because you are best friends....)
anyway, maybe you could ask your parents why you can't shut your door because everybody needs they're privacy. I heard that crying once a day is actually good for you so cry if you need to.
%26amp;
Don't worry, ive had plenty of times in my life where i pretty much hated it, but it ALWAYS got better, and sometimes the getting better took a while and sometimes it didn't so dont even worry, everything is going to turn out ok in the end. (omg i sound like a fortune cookie lol)
ok if your bff knows your parents dont ever let you go shopping its possible she went without asking cuz she new you would have to say no, then get in a fight with your parents cuz they said no. sounds like your parents dont trust you, have you given them reason? if so just remember, in order to be treated with respect you have to give it, repeditively, in order to get it back. yeah, you'll be nice and they will think you want something but if you make a habit of being nice and not wanting anything eventually when you do ask to go out, they will let you on a probationary trial...you can go BUT i want you home by such and such...and then be home by that time or even earlier so that next time you can go again. it works, i know i was the bad kid that had to start over, and now i am the mom.
All i have to say is that I have been in that same situation where i feel like crap at times but once u get older u would start to realize that why the things happen the way they are. So just hang in there , pray about it , and just take it one step at a time
David said his bed was wet with tears (Psalms). Read Lamentations, Ecclesiastes....life is depressing. But life is also joyful too, at times. Happiness and fun is fleeting (temporal), but true contentment comes in time.
Whenever I feel totally bummed out about my life, I realize that there are people being martyred for their faith in China and Africa, and starving children in the world, and then I feel sheepish for even worrying about my petty little problems, which loomed so large at first glance. God knows every hair on your head, little one, and He sees all. Cry out to Him in your pain.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
(Jesus, the Beatitudes in the book of Matthew).
I will pray you have peaceful sleep tonight, and that it all works out for the good.
Shalom.
dude... that's life. most of us go through it. friends do change, so find other ones. you said crush, so how old are you? and big deal if your ';crush'; is ignoring you. if you're calling him a crush, then trust me, there will be MANY MANY others. your parents wont give you privacy, you sound about 14-15 years old. you will have to push and push them. my mom never gave me privacy, always caught me sneaking out at night, then one day she realized that since i was coming home alive and content, then i was ready to live my own life. that's just how parents are. everybody's has different levels of leniency, but most are generally the same.
trust me, i went through the same things. ';friends'; had back stabbed me in grade 10, i even switched schools because of that. made new friends, got over it.
i cried to sleep all the time because crushes never gave back the same feelings i had for them. most brushed me off.
i wasnt even allowed to go shopping, no money, no allowance. had to be with my mom if i wanted something.
mom always opening my door without knocking, even if i was changing (which has happened many times).
sound familiar? trust me, that's just life. you'll come to realize it's actually not that hard to get through if you understand that you arent alone. once you've established who YOU are, and i mean who you REALLY are and your parents realize it, you'll have more freedom.
im 20 now, still at home (it's an asian thing i guess). i can leave at 12am with the car keys with no explanation as to where im going. only have to give a time when im coming back if someone needs the car in the morning.
i installed a new door knob that has a lock. it is always locked when im in here now. 100% of interruptions are knocks, no attempts to open the door.
i have a job, my own money, new friends to go shopping with.
';somewhat'; more mature men interested in me that im interested in.
this all comes with growing up and getting older. so dont worry about it. cry yourself to sleep if it'll make you feel better, or just watch a movie until you pass out. but i am telling you it will get better, just give yourself a few years to grow out of the age you're in now. i dont know you, but i can promise what i said.
i know how you feel my life is very similar but my probs are with friends and b/fs but i feel like that to but just think to yourself that if you do that you'll regret it later...but just think that it'll be over soon enough but most of my life I've spent alone with no friends no love nothing but a home and family that has 2 lil' siblings hurting you every second of your life but just think at what I've said and maybe it'll help...
Everyone has at least a bad day or year. But tell your friend your true feelings and tell her what crap you've been through without her. With your crush, find out why he hates you. Try something a little different to show him a sign like ';please don't be mad at me'; or something. Talk to your parents, ask them why they won't let you have privacy, why you can't go to the mall. Start calm though, if you get mad, pour out your feelings, or even yell, tell how unhappy you are. Because parents want their kids to be happy. Show you're unhappy, then they'll believe you. I went through this time a while ago and things are turning out better. Keep your hopes up, but not too much. You'll survive, believe me!
i feel like **** too.
the love of my life is in love with this other girl..
one of my good guy friends just tried to touch me and it makes me really uncomfortable and then got mad at me for not letting him...
i was just at my best friends house and she didn't invite me to spend the night, which she always does and she and i like couldn't carry on a conversation and then i went home and
i feel so sad too...
Thursday, December 31, 2009
I need advice for newborn twins and a 20 month old, any suggestions to make life a bit easier, please...?
the only thing i can suggest is organization and the realization that u r only human and can only do so much ! while caring 4 ur twins make sure ur 20mnth old has something to keep them amused ( drawing, colouring, a special toy ) it's very difficult with twins and other children. or you could get your 20 mnth old involved in the care of the twins: getting mum the nappies or nappie wipes, helping with bathtime by getting the soap ready or the washers . even though 20 mnths is still very young by this age they also want your praise and attention .....this way they get your praise because they are helping mummy and they get to understand that once the babies are cared for then the older child can spend a lil time with mum .... if they help it gets done quicker and they get mums cuddles sooner .I need advice for newborn twins and a 20 month old, any suggestions to make life a bit easier, please...?
It sounds like you need help. Call on family and friends and try to keep the kids on a schedule as much as possible. This is a hectic time for you no matter what.
Maybe someone could keep the 20 month old for a few hours a day a few times a week.I need advice for newborn twins and a 20 month old, any suggestions to make life a bit easier, please...?
hire a nanny if at all possible.
It sounds like you need help. Call on family and friends and try to keep the kids on a schedule as much as possible. This is a hectic time for you no matter what.
Maybe someone could keep the 20 month old for a few hours a day a few times a week.I need advice for newborn twins and a 20 month old, any suggestions to make life a bit easier, please...?
hire a nanny if at all possible.
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