**HELP! i just need some advice about my love-life!**

advices needed





i broke up with my ex-bf a few months ago


he was really strict with me


i am not allowed to took to any guys


or else he will get angry


i cant give anyone my fone no. unless he says yes


i quarrel with him alot, and it is quarrel


i gave in to him


he also dotes mi but


he choose his passion over mi


now he wans to patch but i dunwan


i love my life now


i dunwan a boyfriend and i tink i like another guy


i wan to just be close friend with the guy i like now


i duno how to tell my ex-bf no i dunwan to patch


my ex-bf owes mi $1k and i really dunwan to patch with him!





any advices?):**HELP! i just need some advice about my love-life!**
dont patch it up with him that would just be stupid


**HELP! i just need some advice about my love-life!**
break up with him, strict people aren't good for relationships! they hurt their partner all the time, if you love another guy then don't wait.
Wait until he pays you the money, and then you can try and go somewhere with the new guy.





It all depends on your looks, but I don't think it's always .. 'easy' for a guy to become 'just friends' with a girl. He will start to like you eventually, and if all you want is a friend that's what girls are for.


Well girls to girls I mean, not many guys have friends that are girls, but have never liked them in their life.





Also, use proper punctionation and spelling, it would help us understand.
Just tell him that you think it is best tht you stay apart, but you would appreciate it if he paid you back the money he owes you. If he does not, file a suit against him in court, if the money means that much to you. For me, I would just cut my losses, and leave him alone. He is probably going to try to use that to get you back. that is what controlling men do. You are away from him right now, just be glad.
WOW HE SOUNDS LIKE A REAL A**!! BUT, ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT HONESTY'S THE BEST POLICY!!
forget him, forget the money and go your way. he doesn't deserve you.
you out of pocket 1k have fun
just tell your ex boyfriend that he had his chance with you, and he blew it by being a jerk. Tell him that you don't want to get back with him because he treated you so badly, and you know that you deserve better than him. And besides, you like someone else now so tell him to move on. And don't believe him if he says it will be different, or that he will change. He might change for a while, but then he will be even worse than before. You don't have to go out with someone who treats you like that, and believe me guys like that don't change. Good luck honey, you might have to just be very strict with him and tell him to stop calling you.
So, just tell him that you're not interested with him. Forget him and face the tomorrow without him at your side....
Just tell him that you are not interested in him that way any more.
yeah go to an english class, and learn how to type
money comes and goes
Well you answered it yourself hunny.





Look at the way he treated you. He was controlling and by the sounds of it manipulative. Why would anyone want to be with a guy where you had to ask HIS permission to give out your number? You're not 5 years old.





I wouldn't worry about the $1000. What's in the past stays in the past. Otherwise that will be the excuse to keep him in your life. Move on and have fun!
why the hell were u with him in the first place!! he is a dick to you, and u can do way better!


just ask him for your money back, you have the right to get it back and guess what he cant do anything about you liking someone else, he will soon realise what he has lost!


he is stupid and u are better without him


:D
chalk that money up for gone


dont try to get it back


dont lend money to friends ever


stay on you own for a few month


your ex sounds like a loser



write the $1K off as money well invested to get rid of him (and don't give money to your dates anymore. if you're engaged maybe, but not to casual dates or even bf's).





Tell him no and to go away and stop taking his calls, emails and however else he's trying to contract you. Do not respond to or otherwise engage him once you've told him you don't want anything to do with him. This isn't the kind of guy with whom you can remain friends with. He's too dangerous/volatile to mess with.
then kiss goodbye to the money, and find someone WAY better...
forget him and look for someone new who is deserving of you. and it's adios 1000 dollars.