Friday, April 30, 2010

I'm almost never happy. I'm a very cynical/sarcastic person. Life just isn't fun. Advice?

Are you kidding? Sarcasm can be a blast! Maybe you're not sarcastic enough. Seriously though, it could be a simple chemical imbalance in the brain, a shortage of seratonin or dopamine, very easily treatable by your general practice physician.I'm almost never happy. I'm a very cynical/sarcastic person. Life just isn't fun. Advice?
I have a very good friend, who is just like you. You take things too seriously. You need to look for the positive things in life. Obviously, you have been disappointed with people and disenchanted with the things you see happening around you.


The way to get out of this rut is to start helping others. Become a servant. Go to those who are worse off than you and be a friend to them. Volunteer, give your time to help others. It will give you purpose, and make life so much more interesting. The scripture says, ';It is more blessed to give than to receive';, and when we are too wrapped up in ourselves, we tend to become cynical and inwardly focused. Start doing things for others, and quit talking negative, and you will see your life turn around.I'm almost never happy. I'm a very cynical/sarcastic person. Life just isn't fun. Advice?
i feel you on this one, i think i could be a happier person. and my only advice is do you want to be an angry old bitter person one day, whom noone ever wants to be around cuz your no fun, or do you want to be a pleasant genuinely happy person?





and u need to ask yourseld if u want to pass your life by? what is it the YOU WANT to do in life? what interest u? whats fun for u?



Write in a journal or go talk to a teacher or the school counselor. you need to get an adult to vent out to. It's not good to hold it in. And if you tell someone then they can help you. You just feel better when you talk about it. Try not to think about it unless your at home and no one is around then you can think . But at school try to smile and have fun. It's hard to after a while it will become easier.
Psychologist.


Seriously. You might be recommended to a psychiatrist. Some chemistry levels might be low for you so you could end up with a prescription. Human beings weren't meant to live the way we do, so its probably not yours or your parents fault. But take the advice of some experts. We put chemicals in our mouths, in our armpits, on our faces, in our hair... we don't really know what they do. Try to live natural, but accept the advice of these experts.
Find something that brings you joy.





Riding horses always helps me deal with my anxiety and occasional ';blues.';





Faith in God helps...knowing that I'm okay...that I don't have to be perfect or happy all the time.





And sometimes professional counseling is needed. It helped me. What could it hurt to try it?
give to others. when you give of yourself to others, it brings internal joy to your heart. spend time with little kids. little children are by nature joyful little things, and are truly happy just for the sake of happiness. Let them teach you how to enjoy life once again.
On the contrary - I'm always happy even my life is hard.





Appreciate God gifts in you. Look around you, there are many people who are unfortunate, poor, homeless, losing their loved ones. If possible share what you have with them.





The joy of sharing is great.
You have to change your mindset. Begin to notice when you are being cynical or sarcastic. Make a conscious effort to change the way you speak. It will eventually lead to a change in your attitude and the way you live.
come to Australia...we have lovely hot sunny days...with cold cold beers, us ladies sun bake topless and we are an outdoor nation, and vitamin d from the sun makes you happy!!! that's why people from Chicago are a bit grumpy and have high levels of osteoporosis!!!



Where are you in your walk with The Lord?? Seek out the joy of The Lord! That is my strength.


Pleasure explained(Psalm 36:8). Evolution cannot explain pleasure - even the most complex chemicals do not experience bliss. However, the Bible states that God ';gives us richly all things to enjoy';(1 Timothy 6:17). Pleasure is a gift from God.


So, as I said before, seek God,He loves you, and is waiting for you to come to Him. The advice you seek is in The Book.
Remember that not all things in life are bad or mean to hurt you. In fact, most people are either apathetic or on your side. There's a new path, a new adventure awaiting you every day... never give up hope. =)
No one in this world is always happy......


But, to get the solutions for your problems %26amp; peace of mind read the 'Holy Quran' completely %26amp; carefully ....You will know the truth ..'InshaAllah'





%26amp; i'll Pray for You !!
people can either go through life seeing the glass half empty or half full.





Our attitude determines if it is enjoyable or a drudgery
Look for the worst in people, and when you find it you'll be happy. And point it out to them, of course.
More alcohol, more sex.





I'm not kidding, either. I wish somebody had told me when I was your age.
Advice: Become uncynical and curb the sarcasm.





Problem solved.
See a psychologist, you may have a mood disorder.
Stop being religious.
Become an atheist.
Go skydiving. Maybe you'll get a new outlook on life.
People are going to say.......Let God into your life. Don't listen, k?
DNA has a lot to do with it and you can't change that so you just have to live with it.

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