Life is garbage, any advice on cleaning it up will be appreciated.?

Im an absolute failure.





Things were fine untill somewhere in grade 10 when i was 16(i think?). I was always shy and quiet, but i suddenly started coming home at lunch and not going back, i rarely attended from then on, eventually dropping out. Diagnosed with 'Depression' from doctor whoever, I did alot of nothing for the next few years.


Right now im 21 and feel im still failing at life, I have not gotten my grade 12, I rarely go out anywhere, Apparently i have social anxiety and am on some medication, I see a pschologist sometimes, but he does nothing helpful if you ask me, just gives pills.


My mom doesent know what to do (just me and her), Im slowly working on grade12 classes but with horrible marks considering i was a 90s student untill this.


I have very few friends that dont come around often. Im lonely almost all the time, I feel as if my Cat is my only friend.


Im Fat/ugly/shy/failure and im open to suggestions, not that ill do them because im too chicken.....Life is garbage, any advice on cleaning it up will be appreciated.?
Cleaning Life Garbage





1. Make the decision that you will start putting effort to change. Make a contract with your MOM to help you keep it and give you positive rewards when you accomplish a short term goal. Start with small goals and then with long term goals.





1. Throw all your garbage away by throwing all those toxic people in your life. THROW THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE.


STAND FIRM ON YOUR DECISIONS.





2. Stay with your medications and find a good therapist or support group in your city.





3. Put effort in your studies, because your are so young.





4. Start walking for exercise plus its good for depression. Make great effort to do it.





5. Do volunteer work to learn self-esteem.





6. If you fail on a first try; try and try again until you get it right. Don't give up.





7. Learn how to be positive about life. Always remember to be positive, this is something you have to keep in your head and never forget. Be positive; AVOID NEGATIVISM.





8. The most important of all, PRAY TO GOD FOR HELP.


Pray every night, and maybe you and your mom can start reading the bible and discussions.





GOD BLESS! AMEN! SHALOM!Life is garbage, any advice on cleaning it up will be appreciated.?
If you want your life to get better you have to ';want'; it. I try to live by the philosophy ';you get out of life what you put into it';,


';if you don't put anything into it, you don't get anything out of it';. You have to apply yourself if you want the positive in your life. Right now you aren't doing anything so nothing is happening to change it. I'm sure you are trying as much as you can, but you have to be able to step outside of yourself and look at your situation from another perspective. What would you tell somebody else who was in your shoes? What advise would you give them? You sound very smart and you haven't given up yet, just keep taking it day by day.
Okay. We got our hands full. First, find a hobby. Not warcraft but something like hiking, walking, do some carpenter work on the side to gain skills and money. And commit to this. Don't do it half ash like high school. Force yourself to a schedule and always follow thru. If you said you were going to walk 2 miles, finish it. don't quit in the middle. Make friends at work and have good work ethics. Your co workers can be great friends. Listen to other people's trouble. People always want to talk. Just listen and it will help you gain knowledge about problems we all face. Good luck. No one cares about what you look like after they get to know you.
life is a garbage and you have to eat that garbage all by yourself to get rid of id..





just relax some more time.. Things wud better in its own way..
Guess what?? This life we're living is it. It's now or never. YOU have made these choices for yourself. DO NOT blame your anxiety disorder or your depression. That just gives you an excuse not to succeed. Get out there and make a contribution to this world.
I understand. I have bi polar, socialphobia too. Youre not a failure. You are sick. And these feelings and thoughts you have are not your real personality. Please trust me with this I know exactly where you are at. Your meds seem ineffective as does your psychologist. Good help is hard to find but you must persevere. Find a psychologist you can relate too and tell your Dr you want to try different meds. Ive seen many different Drs and tried many different drugs. A good book is Feeling good by Dr David Burns. Its on cognitive therapy. It helped me. This really is treatable so please,please,please don't give up.