Friday, January 8, 2010

Life changing decision??? any advice?

Im a senior in high school. my parents were thinking about moving back to their country after i finish collage but they mentioned that if i wanted to go after 2 years i could. i was born in America but i visited my country during winter break and it wasn't till this time that i liked it a lot. i have been there 2 times prior to this visit and i guess i was to young to like it. well now i have a decision to make. do 2 years of collage here and transfer over in my country, or finish school here and live here. i will be losing alot of people i know but at the same time i have moved alot so i dont have really close friends. i have been hesitant in this decision because i would love to live over there because of all the family i have and i like being around people that are like me. but moving away from a place i have lived for for such a long time seems like a drastic thing to do... any advice would be greatly appreciatedLife changing decision??? any advice?
what is your country?Life changing decision??? any advice?
It seemed drastic for your parents to move to America as well, but they've done it for your sake, I'm so sure of that..


You have the chance to experiment the way they felt in the first place.


It's also a very good thing to compare the education and living conditions in other country. Do not hesitate to be with your parents in their original country..all family will be truly happy. It was your parents long time dream..don't interrupt it, you have everything to gain.
Tell your parents that if you move you cant do whatever you want and if you move you get to see your parents. And ask them to explain to you the positive and negative things of what will happen if you make your final decision. But think hard about it because your decision counts how the rest of your life will turn out.
i would do the 2 years of colledge in ur country. it seems like you love it there and like you said, u dont have too many close frinds in ur place so why not you know? its not like ur never gonna go back there. you can always visit.
well i would live here...but would really help to know what your country is..if its a really poor place i don't suggest moving there. at least in America you would have a pretty high standard of living.
Go back and visit for a bit. If you like it, go. If not, stay. And if your not sure, well, you have four years to think about it.
you're spelling collage wrong, it's college.


your decision depends on what you would rather do. my advice to you is to think about it.


you have lots of time, so use it wisely.
GOOD LUCK. Things always happens for a reason. do w.e. you think is right for your career path and etc.
idk
none of us can make this answer for you... sorry
just think about it alot nd do what u want to do if i was in ur position i would stay cause uve lived her ur whole life thats just my oppinion
Another option would be to finish school here, then travel over there to live for a couple of years.You don't have to give up your American Citizenship to live in another country for awhile. It could be an adventure. You could only benefit by the bi-cultural experience. It doesn't have to be viewed as permanent. But it could be as permanent as you decide you want it to be. You could always come back home, to the good ole US of A any time your little heart desires. No matter what you choose, your options are always open. The world is a much ';smaller'; place now then it used to be. Travel from place is easier and less time consuming, and people do it all the time.





The world is your oyster, young person. Experience all you can, everywhere you can.
Well, it's mostly up to how you feel. Are your roots stronger in your country or here? Where do you think you'd be happiest? Consider those things when deciding. Picture your future in each place. where do you think you'll go in life there or here. Hope this helps =]

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