the only thing i can suggest is organization and the realization that u r only human and can only do so much ! while caring 4 ur twins make sure ur 20mnth old has something to keep them amused ( drawing, colouring, a special toy ) it's very difficult with twins and other children. or you could get your 20 mnth old involved in the care of the twins: getting mum the nappies or nappie wipes, helping with bathtime by getting the soap ready or the washers . even though 20 mnths is still very young by this age they also want your praise and attention .....this way they get your praise because they are helping mummy and they get to understand that once the babies are cared for then the older child can spend a lil time with mum .... if they help it gets done quicker and they get mums cuddles sooner .I need advice for newborn twins and a 20 month old, any suggestions to make life a bit easier, please...?
It sounds like you need help. Call on family and friends and try to keep the kids on a schedule as much as possible. This is a hectic time for you no matter what.
Maybe someone could keep the 20 month old for a few hours a day a few times a week.I need advice for newborn twins and a 20 month old, any suggestions to make life a bit easier, please...?
hire a nanny if at all possible.
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