My love life is allfxed up. I need help going into my junior year. Any Advice?

I know have have a long life ahead of me to meet a potential love interest. But im aiming towards falling in love soon.





I am so happy when im in love, its amazing. I would really like to have someone in my life again.





Something akward will be seeing my ex everyday at school... she left me for one of my friends, ive stopped talking to both the friend and my ex. I really liked her alot and was crushed when she told me she would rather have my friend than me.





I dont know what kind of things will be said about me, and if anyone will even want me. They'll know that i loved her. and im wont be that untouched guy anymore, is this bad?





We use to make out in the hallway alot, im hoping this wont affect how other girls look at me, because personally a quick kiss goodbye would be just as good.





Will another girl be able to see me as a potential love?


What kind of things should i do to let girls know im ';available';?





Thanks people ^_^


My love life is allfxed up. I need help going into my junior year. Any Advice?
Kay.





Well junior year is a year of


school, school, school,(i'm a junior too)


but everyone needs love.





Well about making out in the hallway


with your ex, it shouldn't matter cause she's


your EX.





But if anything i say you play it


chill and don't force it let love come to


you, don't go looking for it.





Hey but i'm not saying if you see a cute girl you're


interested in you shouldn't go for it.


By all means do what you have to do.





Well those are my ';words of wisdom';.





Good Luck.My love life is allfxed up. I need help going into my junior year. Any Advice?
hey look. be yourself. be cool. don't jump at people, don't flirt. real girls like to be talked to like normal people, not cats. like i said, don't be phony. chill out and pass our classes. i'm a junior too acctually, and i've found that people are attracted to you when you aren't the one persuing others. look confident in yourself and people will be drawn to youre positive energy.


good luck :)
just get out their and be nice to evey girl, even the one you don't like cuz girls pick up on that. also hang out with many girls as you can it make girls notice that and will wounder why is she with him trust me on that.

My past life troubling me...... please advice? thank you.?

hmmmm... i dunno where to begin exctly.. i had this boyfriend long time ago... he was my first love.. and we dated for 5 years.. we were so much in love with eachother and planning to get married.. then one day suddenly he disappeared and after a week of searching, we found out that he had killed himself, since he had trouble at work and had some debt issues... i never knew about this until that point... before he died he had called me, he spoke casually like always.. and said ';i love you.. '; like always.. i wish i had known at that time that he was gonna kill himself... anyways... i was totally devastated and felt responsible for long time...





then i kinda moved on.. and i met my husband 4 years later. we ve been married for 2 years now and we have a baby... i have to say i ve been very happy with my husband..





now recently for about a month or so, we ve been arguing and fighting about stuff like house work... and i should say there have been times when i thought of leavig my husband...





problem is... i ve been having these dreams where i see myself with my late boyfriend.. kissing and making love... and i am so happy and content in those dreams...





i feel and confused.. i love my husband and i donno why im getting these dreams.. he does nt know abt my past. should i tell him ?


i feel like this ll ruin our life.. please advice. thank you.My past life troubling me...... please advice? thank you.?
It normal to dream about a happy time in your life and even being with an old boyfriend when there are troubles in your marriage. Don't worry to much about it, but also don't get too wrapped up in the dreams - they are only triggered by your frustration at your current relationship. Try sticking the marriage out and let go of the small things. Pick your battles and live in the now.My past life troubling me...... please advice? thank you.?
Okay.Hmm....


Okay i'd do this


Tell ur husband.He might be a comfort.It alaso might be a warning.My mother had a dream of her grandma saying come to me infront of her grave.Then,a day later she had a car crash.


So mabey he is cheating on you.DONT SUSSPECT THIS UNTIL U HAVE PROOF.i dought he is though.


I have 0 ideas
I'm thinking it might be time to get some therapy from a professional....
that must have been a terrible blow, and to be honest a bit selfish of your ex to kill himself wen he had people who loved him.


i think u need to talk to your husband and explain what happened and whats troubling you, honesty is the only way to keep a marriage going, it's not like you've cheated on him, he will understand and you both need to talk through your problems and explain if your not happy, then you can work on it together.


as for the dreams, some say dreams show us what we want (its crap), dreams are simply feelings in the unconsciuous that have been locked away, these seem to be have been locked away since your ex died, and in your sleep, your conscious mind isnt as strong and cannot stop thoughts escaping from the unconscious. that is all dreams are, wild, crazy and often weird unconscious thoughtsu didnt know where there. i studied psychology as a degree and found the section on dreams to be most helpful for explaining situations like these.


good luck.
You might want to tell him about the old boyfriend. Maybe he'll become a little more understanding.
I am sorry for your terrible loss.





But, honey, this isn't going to get any better until you finally let go of your feelings for your passed love one. Tell your husband what your going through, but be sure to tell him you love him, too. Just that you're thinking about this other guy and how emotionally crushing that was for you. Let him know that you're not leaving him for the memory of a dead person, and maybe think of counseling?


When my sister is fighting with her husband, she always thinks about whether or not what they're fighting over is a deal breaker. Is the fight worth ending the marriage?


Also, before you leave him, think of your baby. Is this divorce going to mess up your child? Honestly the best thing you can do is focus on your husband now and just do your best to not blame yourself for what has happened in the past.





Live in the now. Focus on the good. Let go of the past. Tell your husband you love him. Hug your child.





All things turn out for the best in the end.
You dnt need to tell him...Because you guys are arguing right now it might not help the situation if you tell him. Its normal to dream about your first love, especially if he died and you guys never broke up; your feelings for him still exist and it is very normal. Good Luck!!!!
I'm sorry to hear about your loss, but I see all of the wonderful things that you have gained. Maybe you feel guilty for being so blessed, which you should not feel guilty. You are not responsible for your boyfriend's decision to take his life. How could you help him if you don't know what's going on? You deserve to be happy and enjoy life. You should tell your husband about the past, he loves you. Let him help. Counseling may be a good idea too.


We were created to heal and go on, be thankful that you did it. You are worth it. :-)
I do not see how these dreams can change the way your life is for now. all your mind is doing is remembering the past when you were happy, this is just your way of getting away from you troubles and feel happy. even if it is just in a dream. some people do this if they have a lot of worry and need to relax. I do not know the situation between your husband, but I do know at times marriage can have its hard times. but this is the same for every one unless there is something wrong that you did not point out. but house work can be boring as well as aggravating at times, but it has to be done. that is just a part of being married. but you do not need to tell him your dreams. I know that when you are married you should share everything. but for dreams are what they are, just dreams as this may be seen as being something personal and does not have anything to do with a marriage. it is just a way for your body to take you away from your troubles and to relax as to rest, such as going on a short vacation at times. so i do not see any point in telling him about your dreams.

Hi ppl i need some advice on my shattered life any one willing to help?

tell us what you need help with and maybe we can try and help if we dont no whats wrong then how can we helpHi ppl i need some advice on my shattered life any one willing to help?
Well you didn't say what happened so how can we give you helpHi ppl i need some advice on my shattered life any one willing to help?
i can help u cause i hve recently come out.contact me if u wish

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What is a good book to read when your sick of men, love and life and need some inspiration or advice?

Eat Pray Live is an inspirational, big-picture life books.


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I have the really usual problem in my love life and I need some advice...?

I have a big crush on this kid who goes to my school... But he's my best friend... Seriously!! You won't believe how common that is but what should I do! We've been best friends for ever. And I really don't want to make our friend ship all uncomfortable and stuff but I really really like him!I have the really usual problem in my love life and I need some advice...?
Tell him. If he is one of your close friends he deserves the truth. Think of all that he has done fo you! You have to tell him because your feeling will probably never go back to normal and you need to tell him y u r acting different toward him. He mite like you too and if he doesnt you can just work hard to keep the friendship together.

I'm 16 years old, and I'm a dropout. I'm not sure how I will make it in life, give me some advice?

So we can get this out of the way; I dropped out of school because of family issues, and I didn't do my work.


Obviously signs of somebody who isn't going to be a dedicated worker right?


Well the thing I enjoy physical things, and I can't just sit there and do desk work.


I don't have enough credits to graduate no matter what I do at this point (credit recovery, or continuing high school normally).


I'm going to take the GED test, after taking some GED prep classes.


I'm wondering if theirs anyway that I can get a good job with a GED, or am I hopeless?





At times I feel like I just want to end my life because of all the pressure built up and how much everyone expects of me, I feel like a huge let down to my family.


Obviously suicide shouldn't even be a choice for me to contemplate, but I do...


My intention was to graduate and take some chemical engineering classes, but I ruined it for myself.





So once again, any hope for this lost teen?I'm 16 years old, and I'm a dropout. I'm not sure how I will make it in life, give me some advice?
You did not ruin it for yourself. You may have presented yourself with more challenges, but keep going through them one at a time.





I would start by getting your GED. While studying for that, it may help to study some sort of skill trade on your own. You mentioned you like physical labor more than sitting behind a desk, so you simply have to decide what exactly you want to do while you prepare yourself for college.





My recommendation would be to find a small auto repair facility and talk to the owner about a job changing oil and doing other maintenance work. Many garages will pay their oil change technician decently if he ends up showing them what a good worker he is. You might not get paid much to start, especially only being 16.





From there, your writing and communication skills may prove valuable and you might consider working as a service advisor. A service advisor for a garage can make some decent money. While this is going on, be sure to save money so you can afford to go back to college. Set a strict budget that allows for quite a bit of recreational activities, but also allows for you to put a certain percentage or amount into a separate savings account for your college.





Decide from there whether it would be worth taking out college loans for your college or whether you want to work at it a little at a time. However, that goal is a few years down the road.





I'm 31 and going back to school starting on Saturday. I was out of high school for about 7 years before I went back to college to finish. Do I look back and wish I did it differently? Yes. I am, however, proud of the fact that I went back, worked hard, and got somewhere.





You have a lot to look forward to. Break your long-term goals down to smaller, short-term goals. (Get a GED, Find a job where you can save money a little at a time, move up at that job and save more money, start a class at a community college to get some of the core requirement classes out of the way....etc. etc.) Eventually, you will see these goals getting crossed off your list and see, very concretely, where you are headed and where you have gone.





Keep it going. I wish the best for you.





MattI'm 16 years old, and I'm a dropout. I'm not sure how I will make it in life, give me some advice?
All is not lost, you can still fix it. Don't give up, you sound like you have a decent grasp of the situation that you are in, and you are starting to put together a plan to make things ok. So that's good. Follow through on your plan. Get that GED. First and foremost. You NEED at least a GED if you ever want to support yourself. You can get a good job with a GED. Why don't you just set some reachable goals for yourself, and work towards them. Write them down, and whenever you feel hopeless look at the list, and think about what you need to do to achieve the goals. Nothing worth anything is ever easy, so don't be afraid to work hard to achieve them. Get that GED. You can do it. You are only 16. You have your whole life ahead of you!
Just the fact that you can actually use good grammar, spelling and punctuation is a good sign that you can make it in life. Look at all the other people here on this site about your age, they can't even spell simple words! lol. And there's always hope, no matter what (you learn that in psychology class in college).





You could also try one of those mail-in high school diploma things. They cost about $300 though. It's how I got mine. Either way a GED is still as good as a diploma, as long as you pass it good you should be fine.
i dropped out at 15 didnt go back to school til i was 17 at a continuation school and still graduated on time. its not impossible and i was a senior with freshmen credits and still did it. and a GED is exacly like a diploma but now adays depending where you're from you cant survive with just a GED or a diploma you need college to get a good job now. there's hope u just need the motivation!!! im 21 now and goin to start back up college in the fall hope this helps
First of all nothing is hopeless or ruined!!! You are only 16, you have nothing but time ahead of you...I know from where you're sitting it seems like an insurmountable situation but it only seems that way...get your GED like you planned and look into classes at your local community college..as long as you have a GED you should be able to get in...you may have to take some prep classes before starting work on a degree..it may take longer but it's worth it...once you have an AA or AS you can apply to a University and pursue engineering or whatever you choose..ten years from now NOONE will care or ask if you have a diploma or GED as long as you recover and get on your right path now...remember while your in the middle of a situation like this it can seem bigger than your ability to handle it but I've always believed Life is a series of lessons and learning experiences...people learn at different paces so be more forgiving and patient with yourself..most things take some practice before you perfect them...Suicide is not an answer just a trip straight back to the beginning where you have to start all over again..sounds exhausting to me giving up all I've learned and having to go through all the ups and downs again...just hang in there because I promise you nothing lasts forever...I know it's a cliche but it is true that ';THIS TOO SHALL PASS';...I also think you should find someone you trust to talk too..if you can't talk to any family or close friends...try a psychologist or maybe clergyman..just let someone know how your feeling so you don't feel so isolated wtih this problem...if nothing else just know that we are all connected and you are not alone!!!
Honestly I find school is just a waste of time I dropped out before I got anything from it and started a level 5 computer engineering diploma which Ive nearly finished and they didn't ask for anything from school. Your better off doing a course (The people there are allot better then at school.. F**KEN HATE school). Theres probably plenty of courses out there that involve chemical engineering of some sort so have a look around on the net or something!!

I'm almost never happy. I'm a very cynical/sarcastic person. Life just isn't fun. Advice?

Are you kidding? Sarcasm can be a blast! Maybe you're not sarcastic enough. Seriously though, it could be a simple chemical imbalance in the brain, a shortage of seratonin or dopamine, very easily treatable by your general practice physician.I'm almost never happy. I'm a very cynical/sarcastic person. Life just isn't fun. Advice?
I have a very good friend, who is just like you. You take things too seriously. You need to look for the positive things in life. Obviously, you have been disappointed with people and disenchanted with the things you see happening around you.


The way to get out of this rut is to start helping others. Become a servant. Go to those who are worse off than you and be a friend to them. Volunteer, give your time to help others. It will give you purpose, and make life so much more interesting. The scripture says, ';It is more blessed to give than to receive';, and when we are too wrapped up in ourselves, we tend to become cynical and inwardly focused. Start doing things for others, and quit talking negative, and you will see your life turn around.I'm almost never happy. I'm a very cynical/sarcastic person. Life just isn't fun. Advice?
i feel you on this one, i think i could be a happier person. and my only advice is do you want to be an angry old bitter person one day, whom noone ever wants to be around cuz your no fun, or do you want to be a pleasant genuinely happy person?





and u need to ask yourseld if u want to pass your life by? what is it the YOU WANT to do in life? what interest u? whats fun for u?



Write in a journal or go talk to a teacher or the school counselor. you need to get an adult to vent out to. It's not good to hold it in. And if you tell someone then they can help you. You just feel better when you talk about it. Try not to think about it unless your at home and no one is around then you can think . But at school try to smile and have fun. It's hard to after a while it will become easier.
Psychologist.


Seriously. You might be recommended to a psychiatrist. Some chemistry levels might be low for you so you could end up with a prescription. Human beings weren't meant to live the way we do, so its probably not yours or your parents fault. But take the advice of some experts. We put chemicals in our mouths, in our armpits, on our faces, in our hair... we don't really know what they do. Try to live natural, but accept the advice of these experts.
Find something that brings you joy.





Riding horses always helps me deal with my anxiety and occasional ';blues.';





Faith in God helps...knowing that I'm okay...that I don't have to be perfect or happy all the time.





And sometimes professional counseling is needed. It helped me. What could it hurt to try it?
give to others. when you give of yourself to others, it brings internal joy to your heart. spend time with little kids. little children are by nature joyful little things, and are truly happy just for the sake of happiness. Let them teach you how to enjoy life once again.
On the contrary - I'm always happy even my life is hard.





Appreciate God gifts in you. Look around you, there are many people who are unfortunate, poor, homeless, losing their loved ones. If possible share what you have with them.





The joy of sharing is great.
You have to change your mindset. Begin to notice when you are being cynical or sarcastic. Make a conscious effort to change the way you speak. It will eventually lead to a change in your attitude and the way you live.
come to Australia...we have lovely hot sunny days...with cold cold beers, us ladies sun bake topless and we are an outdoor nation, and vitamin d from the sun makes you happy!!! that's why people from Chicago are a bit grumpy and have high levels of osteoporosis!!!



Where are you in your walk with The Lord?? Seek out the joy of The Lord! That is my strength.


Pleasure explained(Psalm 36:8). Evolution cannot explain pleasure - even the most complex chemicals do not experience bliss. However, the Bible states that God ';gives us richly all things to enjoy';(1 Timothy 6:17). Pleasure is a gift from God.


So, as I said before, seek God,He loves you, and is waiting for you to come to Him. The advice you seek is in The Book.
Remember that not all things in life are bad or mean to hurt you. In fact, most people are either apathetic or on your side. There's a new path, a new adventure awaiting you every day... never give up hope. =)
No one in this world is always happy......


But, to get the solutions for your problems %26amp; peace of mind read the 'Holy Quran' completely %26amp; carefully ....You will know the truth ..'InshaAllah'





%26amp; i'll Pray for You !!
people can either go through life seeing the glass half empty or half full.





Our attitude determines if it is enjoyable or a drudgery
Look for the worst in people, and when you find it you'll be happy. And point it out to them, of course.
More alcohol, more sex.





I'm not kidding, either. I wish somebody had told me when I was your age.
Advice: Become uncynical and curb the sarcasm.





Problem solved.
See a psychologist, you may have a mood disorder.
Stop being religious.
Become an atheist.
Go skydiving. Maybe you'll get a new outlook on life.
People are going to say.......Let God into your life. Don't listen, k?
DNA has a lot to do with it and you can't change that so you just have to live with it.